What Is Tantric Massage?
Tantra massage is offered from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erotic zones can also be touched. A tantra massage takes location on the basis of equality and establishes an intimate connection in between massage provider and receiver.
Tantric Massage is everything about Loving touch
A tantric massage is a caring touch loaded with attention and existence. Tantra massage is provided from the heart. Although many touch will happen through the hands (or body to body) it is in fact love that touches. The hands of the giver are gotten in touch with his/her heart. The touch is loving, always focused on the well-being of the receiver. The recipient is likewise present, and gets active and also feels (ultimately) from the heart. Be loving!
Full of attention and presence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a caring touch complete of attention and existence. Do not look around or being hectic with something else, no, your full attention is on giving or getting the massage. Tantra massage is not about routine, set patterns are actually out of the question.
A tantric massage isn't about an established outcome
A tantric massage will constantly be various. You never understand how it will turn out. It is not the technique or the wanted series of rubbing that is very important, it has to do with what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most require at the minute? What benefits her/him? Love knows exactly what to do, like constantly has an appropriate reaction. Therefore the massage will be precisely that exactly what is required. Sufficient is that the provider is present and keeps tuning in to his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine also has its own plan, you cannot "do" it.
Tantric massages therefore often take an extremely unexpected course. A tantric massage does not constantly have to be "fine", ending in bliss.
The best ways to get the very best from your tantric massage
Constantly with respect to limitations
We understood it for a long period of time, obviously, but considering that the #MeToo discoveries, some things have turned up worldwide of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who require their own sexual pleasure/lust on "customers". Obviously, this has little to do with tantric massage. The safety of both giver and receiver always need to be guaranteed. Loving attunement always comes.
Set clear limits in advance
Every person (other than when you are enlightened) has his limitations. This is human and is also essential (check out the article on guarding borders. So believe in advance (both as giver and receiver) what your limits are. Make sure there is a correct intake, and a decent preparation (also with your lover/massage partner). Set clear boundaries beforehand: about psychological limits, as well as make sure for clearness about physical limits. It is a misconception that a tantric massage should always be naked, nonsense. With clothing on is also completely ok (though hard to deal with oil then). It is also a misunderstanding that a tantric massage should be concentrated on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), rubbish too. Personally, we have given/received numerous tantric massages only on the head. In addition, in fact each cell is sensuous, but you will be impressed.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Trigger and let flow freely
Triggering and freeing the flow of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erogenous zones can also be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of fundamental/ sexual/ psychological/ enthusiastic/ love/ creation/ user-friendly energy.
Focused on the natural ecstatic state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage is part of "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is an extremely practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life intended at growing in love and consciousness. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is one of them.
Usually resulting in a wonderful physical, psychological well-being
This is also the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is typically great, often scrumptious. We, therefore, welcome you to completely enjoy getting ánd providing a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are lots of types of massage. Obviously, all massages have specific practices and methods in common. Yet there is a big distinction with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (targeted at relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Erotic massage (aimed at pleasure satisfaction).
* (Body) therapy (intended at healing).
Well because you are truly super energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT an erotic massage either. It's a kind of style these days to see tantra massage as a therapy, however treatment is a profession apart.
The fundamentals of tantric massage.
For an in-depth explanation, see the article on the fundamentals of tantric massage. In summary, the following essentials stand out:
Tantra massage suggestions-- prior to you begin
* Develop a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done quickly on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Supply excellent conditions (physically, however likewise mentally).
* Explain arrangements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage tips-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Ensure your massage is need complimentary, do not push or require anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Trigger (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the entire body.
* Do not just utilize your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Occasionally ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Enjoy!
* Use your senses.
* Give feedback (pleasure sounds?).
* Integrate in integration (rest) minutes.
Need totally free.
Some masseurs are more/mainly worried with what they themselves discover enjoyable, enjoyable, desirable. Though a tantra massage is not a work job, so as a provider you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Forget your own "requirements", remain away from your own concerns and above all ... do not try to require anything. Nothing needs to be done, nothing is required! Once again, do not attempt to impose anything (your very own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to exactly what the recipient needs. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Rely on love. Maybe you are disappointed when somebody drops off to sleep. You may not be waiting for an emotional cry, however a tantric massage has no goal. No designated outcome. It is what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage ideas-- after the massage.
* Take sufficient time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Take time to exchange your experiences.
* Realize that a tantric massage can have an effect for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not right away go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 crucial tantra massage tips (insights/rules).
* Do not work towards a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a pleased ending massage? Yes it can be, it typically is but there is no pressure for you to carry out, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Respect limits, set clear borders beforehand. Our masseuses are primarily extremely open minded - they are naturally due to the fact that of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the desires of the recipient in mind, of course. Know that it can turn out in a different way.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Stimulate the entire body. Being aroused is typical and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are extremely crucial! A lot can come up.
* Be alert to restored freezing minutes. Avoid limits from being crossed once again.
* Step by step becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Taking pleasure in the restored balance and connection in Tantric Massage between sex and heart.
* Give feedback (e.g. enjoyment noises) and supply combination moments (just doing absolutely nothing).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage happen?
Do not discharge, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we mean do not hurry to the climatic ending, hold it, remain in the minute, let that sexual energy construct and flood your entire body.
Possible results of tantric massage.
Offers peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it ends up being quiet in your head (in some cases completely empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of incredibly flowing life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a prospective healing impact. Even though tantra massage is not the same as healing, this release may heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and loving.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more caring, you discover what it is like to like yourself. You experience that everything, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. Which gives a wonderfully liberating and deeply satisfied feeling.
Is delighting in.
You will feel comfy in your body. The mix of relaxation and a lot of energy indicates that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In brief, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Full of attention and existence.
* The entire body gets involved.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without standard kind, without predefined outcome.
* With respect to (shared) boundaries.
* Establishes a (heart) connection in between the provider and receiver.
* Concentrated on the natural, thrilled state of being of the recipient.
* Typically leading to a wonderful physical, psychological wellness (of both).